女人可杀死老公的4句话

　　1 你瞧瞧别人！
　　女人总以此来抱怨男人在某方面的无能，这种无能的指责既可能是事业上的，也会是生活中的，但往往是这句话大大刺伤男人的自尊心，事业是男人生命的重要组成部分，一味地讽刺挖苦就可能将男人置于绝望的境地。既然女人选择了，就应该面对现实，知足常乐，只要男人尽了力，我们就没有责怪他们的理由。君子爱财，取之有道，钱嘛，够花就行，何必强求的太多而让彼此不快乐？对于在事业上失败的男人，女人的安慰和鼓励才是他们最需要的。
　　2 你去哪了？
　　这句话如果是从女人温柔的小嘴飘出来的，倒是让男人感动一下，他体现的是女人对男人的关心，因为这句话后面隐去的是：“我都担心死了”，但若是横眉质问式，就会让男人反胃，因为这句话在警察审问犯人的口供中出现频率最高，比如：“几点到几点之间，你在干什么？”等等，以此确定有没有作案时间。而一部分女人在发问时，往往抱的就是这个态度，似乎男人一刻不在女人眼前出现，就是在外面有不轨行为。其实男人应该拥有自己的生活空间，这个空间是自由的，毕竟男人有着自己的事业和交际圈，爱他就要相信他，相信他就要给他以呼吸的空间，一次两次责问可以，多了就有间谍的嫌疑，彼此之间就会产生隔阂。从法律上讲，男人是没有义务事事需向女人汇报。有些女人也许会说，我的那位就不生气，我问他就会老老实实的回答。这不一定就是好事，男人让着女人并不代表他就是怕女人，他或是心疼，或是不屑纠缠.
　　3 都怪你。
　　女人大多不愿意承认自己的错误，“我错了”这句话往往被认为是男人的专利，女人是不屑说出口的，有些女人表达自己错了的方式就是撒娇，以撒娇来证明自己的理亏是能受到普遍欢迎的，当然也是值得提倡的。而大多数女人却用一句“都怪你”来倒打一耙，女人在许多事情上没有主见，作小小的决定之前总爱问男人：“是这样吗？这样行吗？”，一旦男人点头，便放心大胆地去做，若是成功了，就会兴高采烈，倘若失败了，就会把责任推到男人的身上，主意是男人出的，结果也就应该由男人来承担。其实偶尔说上一句“我错了”会让女人更有魅力。
　　4 谁的电话？
　　如果男人手机响了，女人都会不自觉地问一句：“谁的电话”，如若男人稍有迟疑，就会立即遭到进一步的质疑，正常的电话也会被戴上莫须有的罪名， 有些女人有翻看男人手机的爱好，大凡看到陌生的通话记录，都不忘问一句“谁的电话”，有耐心的男人尚加以解释，三番五次的质问就有可能使矛盾升级，手机是男人的宝贝，这话一点不假，作为女人不妨留一点隐私给男人，保持一点神秘感对爱情和婚姻并非无益。

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My new job posting

It has been two months now since I was in the Klinik Kesihatan. My previous thought of my life in a small clinic…boring…dementia…cobwebs…no on-call…exact time to go back home…stress free…
But so far, life has been everything but those…except the cobwebs…since no one has time to clean up the place…or maybe im too slow to do anything useful…lol…life has been quite interesting here…as I get to be a boss…hmm..with only two staff members below me..lol…talk about organization chart..that consists of just three people..funny! anyway..my assistants have been very supportive towards me. Although they are senior than me..they still respect me…although the same cant be said to other staff member in the clinic..but oh well…I have to figure out how to get things done with their limited support:P it’s kinda fund to order things to be done my way…to organize or run things my way…without having to consult many big shot people above me…things can be done so much faster this way…
Besides the normal dispensing, counseling, filling of prescriptions…I have to help with some product preparation things too…like labeling or prepacking of medicines etc which is pretty time consuming. I have compiled some useful info for the doctors too…just finished the internal audit and the next big thing to come will be the ISO auditing and renovation of my pharmacy. Plus the monthly drug usage report which is to due very soon. A lot to do: ( Most of my time in the pharmacy is spent doing all those things…which looks very easy but in fact they are time consuming too! And they are not as easy as it looks!
I quite like the clinic setting so far…at least I have more time to learn and to help the patients..for example to thoroughly counsel them on illness or drugs, to really find out their hidden problems, to detect any potential mismanagement, to learn more about how doctors manage a patient. I even get to visit the patients at home and counsel led them on the spot where they felt more convenient. Sometimes we are so busy in a busy environment that we have no time to do all these..which is pretty much the basic and perhaps the more important thing, both for health professionals and patients alike.
So for the meantime…hopefully everything will be fine: )

Attitude

Does it matter if because of ur carelessness, ignorance, incompetence…someone was hurt…although it’s not ur intention? Or is it fate that was to blame?
Does it matter if it is your partner, your parents, your siblings?
As health professionals, whether we like it or not, we have responsibilities on our shoulders… we just have to learn to live with it : )

I like

I like to do nothing, glazing into the night sky
I like to take pictures of anything at all
I like to spend my time with my family
I like to spend time with my friends, chatting aimlessly, without worries
I like to be alone sometimes, without people asking me why
I like to be in control of things
I like to do things that I felt appropriate, without needing to explain each and everything

Books

Recently got hooked up with reading…haven’t been reading much besides text books since I went to secondary school..ya…pretty sad case here…but I guess it’s never too late to pick up some books again…and when u find the right book…buy it if it’s not too expensive..we’ll never know when it will be stopped publications or sold out. And don’t forget to buy another one for ur friend too…since u wouldn’t want him/her to miss the great book too: )

Cycle

When it rains, it touches the ground, flows through the mountains, streams, rivers, consumed by plants, animals and humans….eventually it will go back to where it came from..the sky…it’s a cycle…same goes to the way when we did something good for others. We might not get anything in return..not even a simple ‘thank you’….but we will get something in the end..somehow…So the next time when we are troubled by ungrateful people not appreciating our good deeds, hopefully we can realize that eventually the good things will come back to us..it’s just a matter of time : )

Fair

Is it fair that parents always love their children more than the children loving them?
Is it fair that among couples, there is always one that loves the other more?
Is it fair that those we helped so much are not the right ones to help us or simply no show when we need them badly?
Is it fair that those that we are not close to, not spending much time with normally, are those that help us when we are in need?
Is there fair or unfair to start with?

Appreciation

Most often than not, we will only appreciate things or regret about them when it’s too late or when we have lost something. When we are too close to comfort or given too much attention, we might retaliate and take things for granted. It is a rather unfortunate scenario.

Truth?

When we demand the truth, we have to be prepared to handle the truth well, otherwise we only have the right to be given the partial truth or simply to learn ignoring the truth.