Sorry

Sorry…just a simple word…but what a difference it would make to great deals of matters. A sorry in an argument will break down the wall of silence…a sorry can often avoid a lot of unnecessary conflicts… we say sorry sometimes even if we did not do any mistakes…simply because we step back and eat the humble pie…we do not want to lose a friendship…but sometimes even if it’s easier to say sorry..we refused to do..simply because we do not want to give a wrong message to the person…we hope that the person would get the message we are sending across…we are taking a risk there…will we lose him/ her by becoming the teacher that says the truth? But sometimes…our ego prevent us to apologise…the word simply can’t be uttered..yet other times, sorry was used so infrequent that it becomes an offensive thing to say…

Truth is often not nice to hear

A true friend needs to say the truth even if it might hurt your friend…of course in the right time and the right place la. That way your friend would change or improve for the better : )

At the precipice we change

Sometimes, we are capable of doing what we always thought is impossible …in the event of adversity. When we are forced to be independent, when we are all alone without any help, when we have no other options but to do it…mayb is our adrenaline rush..mayb is our mind taking control over our body…ya, mind IS a very powerful tool…think about the placebo effect..we are ever amazed of what our minds are capable of doing…so this comes back to the question of believing ourselves…do we believe that we can do it…sometimes we have to because there is no other choice but to believe in ourselves…that when we are in adversities…whether we like it or not we have to perform, we have to do it..but unfortunately it won’t work all the time..or else you and me will be seeing records being broken by any tom, dick and harry. Of course only those that believe and work hard enough will achieve their dreams…so comes to the questions of dreams..are we dreaming enough? Just realized that it’s indeed very important to dream..without that we don even have a goal to work towards..then needless to say..without a goal..most probably we won’t go far…so back to the first thing we talk about…sometimes… on the verge of adversities..we might learn something..we might reveal our true capabilities…we might evolve to another level…so when we can still manage…we might have to push ourselves a little bit more before asking help from others..who knows what would we discover: )

Quote of the century

Came about two interesting quote…don remember it exactly though..sounds something like this-

At the precipice we change (The Day The Earth Stood Still)

You are not worthy to invoke my temper (someone from 988)

p/s:I very like these 2 quotes…hey, post me some of ur favourite quotes ya:)

To build or to destroy a person

Whether we realized it or not, it is often up to us, to either build or destroy a person’s image, dreams or character. Most of the time, we can’t resist the temptations of complaining about others..we can’t resist to be with other ‘smart ones’ who join the crowd of criticizing others although we didn’t even deal with the person concerned…we can’t afford to be different from our peers that condemned the person concerned…we can’t defend the person concerned even if he/she is in fact different from what our peers described. For me, constructive criticisms should be related to the person in a private setting, not in front of other colleagues and superiors..because we will sometimes destroy that person instantly. Of course, if the matter has been related to him/her for lots of times in private and nothing has changed..then he/she left us no other choice.I would greatly appreciate if I were given a second chance if I make a mistake..to be reminded…not condemned on the spot…I learn from mistakes…mistakes enabled me to never do the same mistake again. but often in real life, once u made a mistake…all the other merits becomes useless.. I, most of the times can’t resist or don’t have the guts to be different too from most people…joining the bandwagon…but sometimes…the least of what we can do is to keep quiet and don’t continue spreading the already torching rumours.

p/s: I haven’t done any mistake or being condemned lately…but others had..unfortunately..

My birthday

For my 25th birthday…I had 4 birthday cakes:) I would like to thank all that celebrated for my birthday. U guys really made me wana cry..but I did’t :P my tears bit expensive to shed u see…but seriously I was touched…din realized that so many people care for me…I wanna apologise for not caring u guys enough ya..wil try my very best to be a better person:) thanks very much for all the birthday wishes…from afar as well as from here at home…the birthday presents….thank you again and God bless !

It's been a while

It’s has been very long since I have updated my blog, facebook, Friendster..everything :P so what have I been up to? Kidnapped by aliens? Sort of..

I have been in clinical department…the busiest department for a prp (provisional registered pharmacist)..it was sure one of the most interesting and fun station though..as we see a lot and learnt a lot of things…we get to see patient that stays in wards…we get to walk side by side with doctors and ran away when they want to ask us questions..we get to talk to patients…sometimes longer than we wanted to….its also very tiring also…I worked the hardest in that station…but anyway…its all over..thank God…im free now..sort of…im now at a more peaceful department, supplying medicines to patients in wards.

So wat have I been up to? I have bought a camera lo.. 7000+ shots after 2 months..hmm…lots of try and error I guess..hope it won break down too easily..nothin much le..my bro was married...hung out with frens..thats all lo…been to cameron highlands and some johor trip…hmm…rili cant think of anything else..spend mos of my time in hospital to be honest..sad case….

Anyway..good to be back..hope can update my blog more often:P

Take k everyone and do let me know wat have u been up to ya; )