笑我笨

IQ与EQ。在现实的社会里，往往别人所注意到的，必定是IQ。聪明的肯定会被人赞赏，但勤劳的往往反而会被质疑是否是效率低。你有没有听说过呢？但我始终相信，即使你在聪明，如果没有正确的态度，你能走的，你能做的，你能拥有的，还是很有限的。今天有两位实习不久的同事在讨论如何解决遇到的问题。一位同事提议问在当场的我，但另一位却不耐烦地说：＂不需要问我，因为我也不会＂。一口咬定我不会。我是笨了些，但我吃盐也比他们久吧。。最终我解答了他们的问题。那么自大。至少如果我不会，我会不耻下问。我会寻找答案。笑我没本事吗？笑我比你差吗？世事无绝对, 还是别笑地太早。

Stress buster

Was pretty down on Friday morning when I was at KK Peringgit. But surprisingly after talking to patients, my mood improved tremendously. That reminded me of an article I read on newspaper the other day about neurology researchers in US who had found out that writing our feelings down can relax ourselves and reduce stress in our lives. This also explains why people writes diaries and songs especially when they were down or frustrated. When we communicate with others…sometimes just talking to another person, even if it’s nothing to do with the problems making us stress, we will feel better somehow. When I was pretty lonely and depressed in NZ, I started writing blog…and it did help in reducing my stress…lol. It’s a stress buster! So I guess the point to be taken is: keep on talking face-to-face, by phone, writing diaries, blogs, chatting wit sms, msn and so on…. And if u haven’t started doing any of the mentioned, start it now… lol

Persistence

Was chatting with a friend the other day and the song ‘Amazing Grace’ popped out. It reminded me of a movie with the same title which was in cinema few years ago. It tells the story of William Wilberforce, a British Member of Parliament who fought for the passing of bill outlawing slave trade in Britain. He fought for it for 20 years even until his last days when he was very ill. The bill was passed 3 days before he died. When the road ahead seems to be so uncertain, so unpredictable, so difficult to go on…to persist is not easy… To persist in doing what we think is right needs tremendous courage and patience. May we continue to be persistent and ask for God’s help in doing what is good for all.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6Cv5P9H9qU&feature=PlayList&p=D91388F6288ACF07&playnext=1&index=9

Relieved!

Today (Friday)..somehow was one of my happiest day for quite a while…coz I have presented my paper…although it was pretty bad…but never mind la..its past tense already…wat a relieved : ) and then I was told that I would have to wait for another extra 2 weeks before having my transfer..that means 2 weeks later than my actual transfer date… but somehow I felt a relieve oso because for the first time I felt a bit of missing the hospital…my colleagues I mean…so was relieved that I have more time to spend with them..lol…it has been quite a blessing to did my training in Hospital Malacca…the senior colleagues here are very nice..very helpful and never tired or stingy of teaching us…and my fellow junior colleagues are also fun to hang out with and enjoyable to work with. Im beginning to feel grateful…lol..(bit slow here since I am emotionless most of the time) anyway…hopefully this coming month would be an enjoyable one and thanks again to all that have been along with me. Appreciated: )